Marjoram- The Oil of Connection

Marjoram aids us when we are unable to trust others or form meaningful relationships. This inability to trust often stems from harsh life experiences. We then develop a fear of close connection in human relationships. We may tend towards reclusive behaviours, protecting ourselves else further by abstaining from social interactions. We may also protect ourselves by unconsciously sabotaging long-term relationships. Marjoram shows the barriers we have formed to protect ourselves from others. It reveal patterns of aloofness, distancing ourselves from others, or being “cold”. When we are in need of Marjoram we are using these protective coping strategies unintentionally. Deep down we desire the intimate connection, but we subconsciously sabotage.

Marjoram teaches that trust is the basis for all human relationships. It assists in increasing our warmth and trust in social situations. Marjoram softens the heart and heals past wounds. It kindles the fires of trust in relationships so that we may blossom. When we feel safe and loved we express our authenticity more freely. Marjoram restores trust and openness so that true bonds of love may be formed.

Negative emotions: Distrust, aloof, porctecte, dissent, emotional isolation, reclusive, emotionally “cold”.

Positive emotions: Open, connected, close relationships, warm, soft-hearted, loving bonds, ability to trust, safe.