This month we’ve been looking at a lot of the contrasts between the masculine and the feminine. The ways that we are different and the things that separate us. This is because we know that making distinctions is a way that we can improve our intelligence and make sense of the world. 

We also know that if we continue along this diverging path too far, we run the risk of polarising and missing out on half of the experiences and opportunities available on this cool journey. 

At the very beginning of this trip of ours, there was a coming together of two parts: one quietly confident and receptive egg chose (did you know the egg is the chooser?) to allow one specific, busy little sperm (yes, the masculine is ever the chaser) to penetrate her defences and allow the adventure to begin.

And so it is for all of our life.

The manifestation of the life of our dreams involves both the ability to receive AND the ability to do the work. One without the other doesn’t create very much at all. To truly be able to live in ease and flow, we need both sides of the equation to be used. 

The CWC way is to first sit quietly in our egg-wisdom and choose, knowing that when we decide what we really want, we always get it. This choosing involves stillness and clarity. It involves dreaming and then getting into the emotion of what that hazy, dreamy life will be like. This is the “twinkle in the eye” of when the feminine brain decides she wants something. For some eggs it is meditating and writing scripts, for others it is about five-sensing outcomes or even physically making vision boards. You do you little egg.

Once you’ve chosen your destination, it’s time to begin the chase and take action. To get your walking shoes on, and set off on the new adventure. This might involve chunking the vision down, setting goals, finding ways to measure progress or even getting others involved. It will involve movement of some kind.. movement in the direction of your dreams. One tiny step at a time.

The final step in manifestation is one that’s often neglected. We have to switch back to our egg-wisdom and receive. You know all those times when people offered you help, gifts, compliments? Perhaps you kindly accepted them (yay) and maybe sometimes you pushed them away. Often we go to all of the trouble of planing out our journey, and doing the work and then don’t sit quietly enough to receive, creating infertility rather than a luscious new life.

This week we would love you have a little play and to choose something. 

Just one thing that you really want. It can be something huge and crazy like a new house, job, career, dream holiday (yes, one day we shall travel again) or something quite simple, like an exercise class, a new pair of shoes or a cup of tea in a comfy spot. 

Once you’ve checked in with yourself and made sure that you really do want it (imperative), we want you to be the egg. Sit with the feelings and create the space for choosing. Once that’s sorted, be the sperm, and jot down some of the steps required, and then do one. Then pop back into being all egg-like, and notice all of the ways things magically line up when you allow yourself to receive. 

The unity of the masculine and the feminine truly is wondrous. 

Allow yourself the joy of both.